The Vision Turn

Vision in Ministry

Vision in Ministry

When my Brother and I first started talking about youthmin.org last summer, we had a lot of dreams for it, some of which were realistic and some maybe not so much, at least not for now.

But if you had asked me in October, when we were heavily working on getting the site up and running and ready for launch, what my vision for the site was, you would have gotten what now seems like a very shortsighted answer.

I wanted to create a site in Youth Ministry that would amplify the voice of the “Everyday Youth Pastor” and create dialogue about things in Youth Ministry.

In talking to a friend recently, he asked me “What would you define ‘Success’ as for youthmin.org?” And I had to think long and hard about it, and truthfully, I’m still not done thinking.

Two months ago, I would have said success would be getting 1,000 views a day, 20 comments a day, 20 ReTweets a day. And as I thought about that more, I realized that specifically with a blog, these are some of the only metrics you can use for judging the effectiveness of what you are doing. To me, Success is all about Effectiveness, and when I look at the above, I would say  if our site was doing those things, we would be Effective in starting dialogue in relation to Youth Ministry.

But then I wrote my goals for February post after a “Poor” month in January for the site (Poor in relation to the above metrical goals, I still think we pumped out some great content last month). It’s almost like I willed things into happening, because we went from an average of 350 views a day in January, until the day I wrote that I wanted to hit 25,000 views in February, when our stats doubled and we’ve been closer to 1000 views every day this month, sometimes more sometimes a little less.

All that to say, we are showing signs of “effectiveness.”

But are we really?

I read a lot of posts about Youth Ministry, but I also read a lot about social media and blogging, and one thing I have come to see as being true is that the best blogs know what product they are selling. Now, I don’t mean they are selling a literal product (though many are) but they fully understand why their Readers read their blog specifically over the thousands of other blogs out there, and they know how to capitalize on that.

I would put forth that these bloggers have made the Vision Turn. I don’t think there is a single thing a person has started without vision. For all the talk about the word by Leaders in whatever industry, I would say Vision is not what lacks from most leaders. It’s easy to have. I mean, literally, thinking back, how hard was it for my brother and I to have a “Vision” for a new Youth Ministry site? We saw a few needs, and saw a way to fill them, and have been working at that.

But the problem comes when organizations, be it blogs, Youth Ministries, Churches, Companies, whatever, reach their vision turn, when the “What are we going to do?” turns into the “What are we going to do next?”

I think back to an article in Group magazine this past Spring/Summer about a Youth Worker who was fired from a church, and in his article he talked about one of the things he believed led up to his release was the lack of vision in the church after finishing a huge building campaign. I would put forth that this church failed to make the vision turn.

Coming up with a dream is only a fourth of the battle. The hard part is figuring out what to really do when you get there.

I don’t know whats next for youthmin.org. We’re not there yet, still a long way off. But I also know, if I don’t start planning for it now, then Youthmin.org will be a pretty cool site for a few months and then die off.

Just like in Youth Ministry. It’s easy to see a Youth Pastor who says “I want to build a building and it would look like this, and it would have this purpose, and were going to have 200 new kids this next year, and 50 baptisms.” Thats a great sounding vision. But when it happens, when those things are true, what are you going to do?

Prepare for the vision turn before you get to the curve.

A Youth Ministry Game Changer #stumin #youthmin

Orange Conference

It’s Orange Week, and so I’ll be talking all about my Favorite Ministry Conference of the Year for the next few days.

I’m super excited about this year’s theme of Game Changer, and I know that the Orange Conference will once again be a game changer for me and the Ministry I am blessed to lead.

But for some reason, I can’t help but think of another huge Game Changer in my life.

Orange Conference

A friend and fellow Orange Blogger Ben Kerns posted a video yesterday that was a recap of the Winter retreat he just got back from at Hume Lake camp in California. This is a place I haven’t really thought of much in the past few years, but 8 years ago as a Jr. in High School, I was at this very Winter Retreat with my Youth Group. I saw 15 seconds of the video and paused because all these thoughts kept coming back to me about that retreat, because it was a game changer in my life.

But here is the thing, I remember EVERYTHING about that retreat. I remember the inside Jokes my friends and I had from our cabin trying to fall asleep at night, I remember the walk from our cabin to where we would meet the girls and walk down to chapel or the cafeteria or the recreation areas. Speaking of girls, I remember that I did not have a girlfriend when we got to the retreat center, but I did have one when we left, and I remember that whole process, from making one of my friends who was a girl go in a different van so she could sit by the girl and put in a good word for me, to countless other little details about that process. I explicitly remember, also, falling off of my tube and sliding on a giant sheet of ice and scraping skin off of my hip bone to where I could see the bone, and going to the nurse and her telling me “You need to gain more weight, you have nothing to protect your bones from this sort of thing.” I still have a 4 inch scar there, though its faded, and where as it used to be on by hip bone, its now in a slightly different area.

I remember everything about this retreat, even the guy who spoke, his name was Eric Heard, and I found out last night he’s a pastor at Mariners Church. But I remember everything he said about himself that first night, how he was still in Youth Ministry in his 40′s and that was kind of rare.

But what I don’t remember are any of the talks, any of the lessons we did in our cabin. I don’t remember any of the teaching from this weekend, not even the general theme ( which I feel bad for, because now that I’m a Youth Pastor, I know how hard they probably worked on making a memorable theme. Oh well).

So what was a game changer for me? Was it the girl I started dating? No, she broke up with me because I was a bad influence for not always listening to “Christian Music.” From Facebook, I’d say I wasn’t the only bad influence she ever had.

Was the game changer that I ripped my side open and got too scared to do anything ever again? No. I still do stupid stuff, I’m a Youth Pastor after all.

No, the Game Changer was when my Youth Pastor pulled me aside for just a few minutes after that first talk when Eric mentioned he was rare, being in Youth Ministry at 45, and told me “Someday that will be you. God is calling you to bigger and better things than you can think of for yourself. You’re going to leave a legacy, live like it.”

It was nothing profound, not 3 point lesson or “Im going to impress you with my biblical knowledge” lecture.

Im sure to Aaron it was nothing, and I’m pretty sure it wasn’t a “Hey, quit joking around, live better” type lecture. But I know to me, it was a game changer. That someone outside of my family would see in me something I didn’t see yet, but that my parents had been telling me.

I may never leave a legacy of being the world’s greatest Youth Pastor, that award will probably never show up at my door. My legacy may only be that a few kids got saved from going through our ministry and they went on to live happy, Christian lives. But the words of Aaron have since and will forever be a challenge to me to Live like I’m going to leave a legacy, and never settle for what I think I am possible of.

 

Want a free copy of Parenting a New Generation by Chap Clark?

This coming week is Orange week, a week in which several bloggers commit all of our posts to spreading the Message of Orange. Why? Because its a philosophy of doing Ministry that we believe in, and one that we want to spread.

In return, Orange often times hooks us up with freebies to give away to our readers, which is how I was able to give away a free registration to the Orange Conference 2012 to Ben Zabel in September.

This go around, I’ve been given a copy of Parenting a New Generation by Chap Clark to give away. I’m super jealous, because part of me would love to keep this for myself, because a) I have heard such great things about it, b) I have seen my friends in ministry talk about the great things that came from doing the study with parents, and c) its Chap Clark, I love anything and everything by Chap Clark because the man does great work.

But here is the tricky part. I started a new site a few months ago, Youthmin.org, and Im actually giving away this item through that site. So if you want to win a copy of Parenting a New Generation , just visit Youthmin.org and enter using the Punchtab promotion.

And you can get more than one entry! You get an entry for tweeting the post, for liking the page, for answering a question, and on and on and on.

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